July 6, 2022
When parents accept, love, and show affection to their children, even when they make mistakes or fall short of expectations, this is love unconditional. In other words, it is a form of love with no strings attached. Therefore, parents love their children for who they are, no matter what. Unqualified love is what makes identifying your own son as a mass murderer so difficult. We do not see our loved ones objectively. That is for other people. We see the potential in our loved ones, and ignore or dismiss the potential for disaster. In recent cases, parents actually abetted their sons in the purchase of firearms.
This may explain the fealty that too many people show to Donald Trump. After all, it was Trump himself, who said he could kill someone on Fifth Avenue and suffer no consequences. Only a child who knows the impotence of his parent would say something like that. Trumpies are incapable of reining in their man-child. They don’t see what is obvious to the rest of us. They have lost control of their child. Their child was willing to have Mike Pence hanged. Their child was willing to lead an armed insurrection to the Capitol, which caused the deaths of many and could have led to even more massive bloodshed. Trump supporters are okay with that because they have unconditional love for the ex-President. There is nothing he can do that could break the parental bond. To paraphrase a saying, “Don’t confuse them with the facts.”