January 30, 2020
Some individuals are distinguished by academic intelligence, which tends to be the one we prize the most. However, there are other forms of intelligence that are equally of value e.g. musical, spatial, and athletic intelligence. There is also something called emotional intelligence, which involves interpersonal and intra-personal interactions. If you are high on the emotional intelligence scale, you think about and are aware of feelings, both your own and those of others. Emotional intelligence begins with what is called self and social awareness, which is the ability to recognize emotions and their impact in both yourself and others.
Here are some of the indicators of emotional intelligence.
• You think before you speak and act.
• You strive to control your thoughts.
• You benefit from criticism.
• You demonstrate empathy.
• You praise others.
• You apologize.
• You forgive and forget.
• You keep your commitments.
Clearly, Donald Trump has exhibited a total lack of academic intelligence. Secretary of State Rex Tillerson called him a moron. He has threatened to sue his alma maters if they release a transcript of his grades. Musically, he has effectively been banned from the Kennedy Center Honors. His idea of music culture is Kid Rock. Spatially, he doesn’t design garish buildings, he just builds them. And athletically, he cheats at golf. So that only leaves emotional intelligence. Maybe that is why he is so popular, and connects with his base? I think not.
He certainly does not think before he speaks or acts. His performances at rallies are pure stream of consciousness. He not only does not benefit from criticism, he aggressively attacks anyone who dares to say a word against him. Empathy is not in his vocabulary. Throwing paper towels at hurricane victims in Puerto Rico tells you all you need to know. He doesn’t praise others unless it benefits him, but he does load heaps of praise on himself. He definitely never apologizes, and he never forgives and forgets. He is extremely vengeful. Lastly, he does not keep his commitments. Just ask his ex-wives.
So what is his skill set? He is a bully pure and simple. Being a bully requires no intelligence. It just requires the ability to feel no remorse and feel no shame. He abuses his position, whether it be with aides or foreign leaders. What I don’t understand is why some people are not intelligent enough to understand this?